Sunday, August 4, 2019


Mother’s Day 2019/ a trip to Vegas

Here we go and hopefully, I can write what is in my heart. Mother’s Day was a fun day, even though I was in pain. Three days before, I fractured my sternum and boy the pain was almost unbearable. Heidi and Bill made the day special as always. Neal also surprised me with the tote I wanted. Rodmond, Paul, and Steve called. Walter was busy celebrating with his own family and said he was going to call but, by evening he totally forgot. He, Rod and Paul came two weeks later to celebrate.

Seven weeks have gone by since then and I am still struggling with the pain. After nineteen days on Narcs I took myself off, I was breaking out in a rash. The withdrawal symptoms were so bad for almost four days, never again will I take Narcs. The only good thing was I slept better but believe me, it is not good in the overall theme of health.

My children all stepped up to the plate, which made me feel good. Heidi came for a few days and would not let me do anything especially laundry, ha, ha.


Her last evening here we went to Brava’s and had some great food and a good time together. I love Brava’s, I also like most of our Restaurants here in Healdsburg.

Rodmond took me to Las Vegas in April for 5 days and boy, was that fun and interesting. We stayed at Caesars Palace with a beautiful view of all the grounds, the room was a mini suite and wonderful. Rod was so attentive and he spoiled me. One day we drove to the Hoover Dam which was educational. We also visited a ghost town outside of Bakersfield on our way to Vegas. I loved it, all the preservation, buildings and it was fun to look at the history of the first settlers in California.

This weekend Rod is coming for a visit and I ordered his Birthday present which I hope will arrive before the weekend. I also ordered Bill’s present, a little late but I hope Rod and also Bill will love it. I have a valid excuse: I was laid up for several weeks, kind of wallowing in self-pity.

Summer is here and I am banking on it to get warm. It is no fun to be cold all the time even when my home is 80 degree, yikes.


I am also getting ready to get my driver’s license renewed. Always something going on. In the meantime I could add a lot more to this blog. I decided to write another one instead. Will add some pictures to this one.








Thursday, March 21, 2019


Evolving as we age:

Another Mother’s day is approaching I can’t believe that I did not post a blog in all these months. Time seems to go faster as we age. Priorities change but, in the back of my mind, I need to get more blogs written and try to marry them into my book which has a deadline of July 2020 when I will be 85. The year 2018 and the start of 2019 have been a challenge, not just on a personal level, but nationwide.  Natural disasters, a President who only thinks of himself and not the Nation, the People who carry it. I am hopeful that America will learn a valuable lesson through all this.

On a personal level I am grateful for my family and friends, my living situation. Health issues are taking too much time and thought as well as money. I am at the point where I am grateful for every day I wake up. Today is a great day, woke up with no pain. I believe it has to do with me cutting out gluten for the most part and I have a cup of Ginger Turmeric Tea daily. I’ve been self-medicating for the last 10 days and can’t help but think this is the answer to the osteoarthritis, not so much for the scoliosis.  A lot of changes I have been forced to make but if it makes me feel healthier and put a smile back on my face I have nothing to lose, right?

We have sunny cool weather and it lifts ones spirit. Trees are blooming and walking is good medicine. Looking at my balcony, it is time to do some spring planting. Sunday was St. Patrick’s Day and I cooked corned beef, cabbage, carrots and potatoes in one pot. Neal came here for Sunday lunch, he thought it was delicious. Entertaining has been put on the back burner for some time now. My bestie is so busy with her new son so we do not interact as we always have over the last 15+ years. I do understand that since I am a Mother of seven Children, all grown now thank God. Concentrating more on grandkids these days. Unfortunately they all live far away. We are lucky to be able to call, send e-mails or go on Facebook to find out what family and friends are up to, ha, ha.

On May 5, I will be living in beautiful Healdsburg 21 years. Talking about evolving, boy the town has changed - most of it for the better, some of it not so good. However, I love this town and I call it my hometown now. This is the longest I lived in a Town since coming to the US with my husband Marcus and son Walter 60 years ago, pregnant with Neal to be born about 7 weeks after arriving in the US.

I am posting a picture of my youngest granddaughter Janine who turned 15 yesterday. Janine is my oldest son Walter’s youngest daughter residing in Idaho. Janine is stepping into my shoes with her love for cooking. Her Birthday gift was a set of beautiful Henkel cookware which made her so happy.

Thursday, November 15, 2018


Mother’s Day 2018

I do not know how to start this blog. Heidi, Bill, Neal and Paul made my Mother’s day very special. My son Steven called from England. Rodmond came a week later to celebrate his Birthday and Mother’s Day. Walter forgot about his Mother, not intentionally I am sure. Now it is the end of June and it’s time I put up a new blog, it has been over a year!

It has been a chaotic time since Mother's Day. Heidi and Bill lost their home as the owner decided he had to sell. Heidi managed the house for 20 years. It has an apartment upstairs. Dealing with tenants and the upkeep of this beachfront home was a high maintenance job. We all loved that house. Over the 20 years and before that, one Holland or another lived in that house. I even rented the apartment upstairs at one point and lived there for almost 3 years. The water view was tremendous. At the time, I worked at the Santa Cruz Dream Inn as Director of Food & Beverage.

Now I live in Sonoma County, I have been here for 20 years. Hard to believe. My town is in the middle of wineries hills with a lake 12 miles from here. The Pacific Ocean is about 20 miles away. It all is easy to visit, especially when you get house guests from Europe and across the nation. Over the years my apartment has evolved with updates. Needless to say, I love where I live. My neighbors and land lady are rare finds.

One son, Neal, lives in town. He bought himself a one- bedroom trailer home. Rents are so high he decided why not own something you can afford? And voila, he did it. The rest of the gang is scattered over California, the country and the UK.

Rod visits every two to three months, so does Heidi and Bill. I never am alone to long to get lonely. Friends and I entertain each other. As you all know, cooking is my thing but I have to say that over the last two years it has become more of chore instead of fun. Health issues get the best of me when I am to long standing in the kitchen, chopping and cooking. Clean up is the worst. I guess at almost 83 one can expect that, ha, ha.



August 20, 2018

This computer frustrates me. I want to put the date in bold and it won’t let me do that or I can’t figure it out, it is so annoying. In the meantime I had a Birthday - so did Heidi and Neal. July 29th Kurt passed on 19 years ago, and August 23 is approaching: it will be 42 years since I became a widow. Raising my seven children was no picnic but we all made it through those unsettling first few years. My children became adults and took their lives into their own hands. Marriages, grandkids, divorces and death are all part of the big picture.

 Living in California is scary right now, wildfires all around us and no telling where it will hit next. I am grateful to live here and being safe so far is good. Last year we were on evacuation alert, this year the fires are further up north and down in Southern California. Climate change has a lot to do with the weather pattern all over the world. We the people need to be more aware and vigilant to turn this around. The fire infernos remind me of World War II and it is not a good reminder. All this creates anxiety and a lot of sadness. So many homeless people and now we need to add all the families who lost their home in those fires. All we can do is have faith that we all will survive. My family in Germany, including me, did. I never thought I would see such devastation again.

Today is August 23: it is full of good and sad memories. I have to think of a closing for this blog and add a heartwarming recipe and pictures of the way we were.

Well as of today November 15th I am still struggling with an ending. I do want to thank all the First Responders who are now in Butte County and down in Southern California. Keep praying for a lot of rain.


 

Cheesy Mushroom Bread Pudding


3 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
10 ounces packaged cremini mushrooms sliced
2 cloves of garlic, pressed
1 teaspoon fresh thyme or 1 teaspoon dried (not powdered)
Salt and pepper to taste
6 large eggs
2 cups milk
¼ cup grated parmesan cheese
½ baguette, cut into ½ inch cubes
2 cups shredded mozzarella cheese

Preheat oven to 350*

In a large skillet, heat the olive oil over medium heat. Add the mushrooms, garlic, thyme, salt and pepper to taste and cook, stirring, until the mushrooms are browned, 8 to 10 minutes.
In a large bowl, whisk together the eggs, milk 2 tablespoons parmesan, and salt to taste. Stir in the bread cubes and let soak for 10 minutes.  
Stir in the mushroom mixture and the mozzarella. Transfer to a greased 1/ ½ quart baking dish; sprinkle the remaining parmesan on top. 
Bake until golden, about 45 minutes. Let stand 15 minutes before serving.

Makes 4 servings






Sunday, August 13, 2017


July 2017 A Memoir

Mother’s Day Surprises/ Birthday Celebration

This is my third attempt since Christmas to write a blog. My writing was going pretty well but now I can’t get out of being stuck. As Heidi says: just write, editing will pull it together. OK we’ll see.


The last six months have been up and down, mostly up though. Mother’s Day weekend was a big surprise. Heidi came of course and for the life of me I can’t recall what we all did on that day besides a big balloon, flowers, oh a new tablet and Heidi making Breakfast/Brunch?? We were sitting around the table talking and all of a sudden Heidi says “Mom are you going to open the door?” I said,  “Why should I open the door?” She told me someone knocked on the door or rang the doorbell which I did not hear, yikes! I opened the door and had the surprise of the year. My nephew Joachim was standing there from Germany. What a surprise. He knew I love surprises and this is the second time he did that. The first time was in Santa Cruz where I was working as Director of Food and Beverage at the Santa Cruz Hotel. 


Heidi had to go back home to Santa Cruz a little later.  Joe and I spent a week sightseeing and, at times, he went out on his own. We talked a lot, especially about my brother Manfred, his Father, who passed on in 2013. Joe wanted to know about Koenigsberg, our home before we had to flee from the Russians. Manfred would never talk about the war years to his kids. I answered oodles of questions about that time in our life. We were children: I was barely 10 and Manfred was 9. Funny, I remember so much from those childhood years all the way back to about 4 years old.


Now it is the end of July.  Heidi, and I each had a Birthday and it was a busy month. Neal has a Birthday tomorrow.


We all missed Kurt who passed on the 29th of July 18 years ago.





Heidi and I did a tour of the African Safari West in Santa Rosa for our birthdays. It was an interesting Adventure. We drove in these double decker jeeps and had a great time, learning about various animals out of Africa. The Birds were the most amazing part. I missed seeing Elephants and a Lion or Tiger. We saw Monkeys, a Cheetah, Zebras and a lot of different Mountain Goats. Our tour guide was very informative - a little long winded but all in all it was educational. I can never stop learning even at the age of 82, ha, ha. Once we got back home, we took a shower and I set up a Birthday Kaffee Klatsch for Heidi with two friends. It was a great ending to a busy day. In the evening Heidi took me out to dinner.


Neal’s’ Birthday wish is a dinner at a Mexican Restaurant and that is what we will do tomorrow evening.





Monday, November 7, 2016


Traveling to Boise Idaho

My son Rodmond took me on a road trip to Boise, Idaho to visit his brother my oldest son Walter and his family. It was a relaxing and fun trip. We stopped in M…… overnight and did some gambling. Rod showed me how to play poker on those gambling machines, so much fun. I lost $5.00 Rod only lost $2.00. The next morning after breakfast we took off for Boise.

Walter and Veronika were waiting for us, Jesse and Janine were in Church. Oh yes, we arrived in Boise on a Sunday. The first impression of their property and home was so unexpected. Beautifully landscaped and enclosed by high fences with a gate which makes it look like a little estate. Actually, the home sits on about 2 acres. Walter and Veronika added a huge master suite, a to die for bathroom which includes a tub with jets and a sauna. A Living room/music room also was added to the original 3 bedroom house.

After Rod cooked this great breakfast the next morning, Rod and I went sightseeing. Boise built a European style village with beautiful gardens and a big fountain which was music driven, the sprays went up and down by the tunes. We thought the music was a little loud. The stores and restaurants all had a European flair. We loved walking through it and sitting on one of the benches to relax. Flowers everywhere!

Jesse and Janine off to school
Back at Walter’s home, Walter and Rod worked on window frames to get ready for Walters next project. The girls went to school and Veronika and I got better acquainted.

The time went by so fast and we were back on our way toward California. Rod decided we should drive all the way to my home in Healdsburg, it took us 11 hours, not bad. Rod stayed about two hours and left for his home in Sacramento. I am forever grateful that I got to go and see how my oldest son and family are doing. It was a wonderful relaxing and scenic trip.

Less than 18 hours later I got sick. I ate a yoghurt which was in the hot car for almost 8 hours and got a staff food poisoning infection, yikes, how to spoil the homecoming.


The Big Surprise:

Three weeks ago I received another surprise. My children bought me a new car, a Fiat 500 Sport, black. I still am in awe. They been talking about how I need a new car for almost a year and I kept saying no. At some point over the last month my daughter Heidi says: “Mom it is not your decision anymore”, wow. My thoughts were, ok this will pass and everyone is going to be happy with the way things are. Boy was I wrong. The surprise was total and we will try and post the video so you all can see my face when I was handed the keys to the car. Heidi and Bill and Rod where the ones who got the ball rolling. When I saw Heidi and Bill and our friend Josie besides me at that parked car which had a for sale sign saying: “FOR SALE YOU SHOULD BUY THIS FOR YOUR MOTHER”; I laughed at that and then Bill steps forward and says: “Maybe they did”.  I was so flustered. I got to drive the car to my home with Bill besides me explaining all the buttons, ha, ha. We all went home and Rod cooked lunch. Heidi and Bill had to leave for home after lunch which is in Santa Cruz and Rod decided he was leaving also. Neal was the one who directed Rod to the parking lot where the Fiat was parked. Neal of course also went home, he lives here in Healdsburg.

After everyone left I had myself a good cry! The generosity of my children overwhelmed me and still does. I am forever grateful for my thoughtful children.

Monday, August 8, 2016

Celebrating 81 Years


July, 2016/ Celebrating 81 Years!

It is a good day to write if I can just get my head around it. I been avoiding my manuscript! Perhaps I am afraid that my book will bomb but I will never know unless I finish it will I? It is time to change my attitude and my time management. Making a new schedule for writing is the first thing I need to do. Stick with it every day and voila, I will finish it. I am retired and have the time. Unfortunately, I always find a different project to do, more physical than sitting at the computer. The sun is peeking out and it will be a very warm day.

My 81st Birthday was July 15, and my daughter Heidi was here one day before my Birthday. Heidi took me for a facial which was fun, even though I am not fond of facials.

Bill, Heidi’s husband came on my Birthday so did Rod and of course Neal. We had a great time. Chinese was on the menu at the 8 Dragon Restaurant and it was good. Saturday morning Heidi and Rod made breakfast. Then, Bill, Rod and Neal left. Heidi and I went shopping and Heidi left for Santa Cruz on Sunday Morning.

I feel blessed. My other children and grandchildren called. My home was filled with flowers from my children and friends. Cards galore, I really do like my birthday, ha, ha.

Weekends are strange when I am alone, I really do not know why but they seem more lonely, even though I am alone most of the time. I also have not been very social for the last couple of years, not healthy they tell me!

Slowly but steadily I am evolving again and will entertain more and also travel some. Las Vegas and Boise are on my bucket list and I hope one of my children will travel with me in the next year or two. I feel bad that I disappointed Walter for not being in Boise for his Birthday which was in April.

Heidi had a Birthday July 28 (she’s past 40 years old), oh boy no wonder I feel so old some of the time.

Neal had a Birthday on August 1 (he’s past 50 years old).

July ended with a sad note. Kurt passed on 17 years ago on July 29. August also has sadness my husband Marc my children’s father passed on 40 years ago on August 23.

As for a favorite recipe that all my children and Marc loved is in my blog: The California Adventure 1982-1996 I believe it is blog number four.

The recipe is: “SIGRID’S CHILI”





Monday, February 15, 2016


Christmas 2015, January 2016



Our Christmas had its ups and downs. We really did have a nice Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. The sad part was Heidi got sick the day before Christmas Eve and was under the weather until the 27th of December when she started to feel better and she and I went shopping. Heidi stayed an extra day, her hubby Bill and my son Rodmond left the morning of the 27th, Neal of course lives in Gyserville so he was back and forth.



Our new tradition of having live Lobster, which we started about seven years ago was so decadent. I tried to convince my children that it is too costly but of course I was out voted. Heidi’s hubby Bill really insisted and bought dinner for us.  It certainly is so much easier on me since I used to cook Duck with all the trimmings. I miss it at times and tell myself I will cook one just for me, ha, ha.



As usual my kids surprised me and I received a Robot Roomba vacuum - so much fun and it helps my back. I still need to learn more about the Robot Roomba because even though I schedule the time I want to vacuum he has a mind of his own and starts vacuum in the middle the night sometime, yikes. Have not had a chance to study the whole manual because I got sick and was sick for about four weeks. I’m still not at a hundred percent but getting there. Neal was a big help these last few weeks and I am so grateful to have one of my children live close by.



Once I felt better and ventured out my car broke down and I had to take it into the shop, no fun! In the meantime I also had to have two new front tires. Isn’t the saying unexpected things come in threes? Hopefully this is the end of it and all will go smoothly from here on out. When unplanned obstacles happen I wonder at times why did I choose to live alone?! However I would not like it any other way, ha, ha.



I love living alone and love the town I choose to make home. I have a beautiful apartment and great neighbors and made good friends here in Healdsburg. Visitors from near and far makes life interesting and busy which is a good thing when you are a senior.



Our traditional  Christmas Eve dinner is Curried Shrimp Leek Soup has been for more than 40 years. I believe I posted the recipe in a previous blog. Will have to check that out.


I hope who ever reads my blog will stay healthy and happy and warm. Will attach a appetizer recipe which goes great with any special occasion especially at Christmas!

Portobello mushroom carpaccio

4 medium portabella mushrooms
extra virgin olive oil
salt and fresh ground pepper to taste

Topping
extra virgin olive oil
balsamic vinegar
1 clove garlic finely chopped
2 shallots finely chopped
2 ripe tomatoes seeded and diced
2 tablespoons capers
4 tablespoons grated fresh Parmesan cheese
6 fresh basil leaves chopped
2 tablespoons chopped parsley
salt and fresh ground pepper to taste

Mix olive oil and garlic in a small bowl. Brush the mushrooms with the garlic and oil mixture, place on sheet pan then season with salt and pepper. Bake in 350 degree oven until cooked through about fifteen minutes. (This can be done up to two days in advance).

Presentation:
Slice the portabellas 1/8 inch thick on the bias and arrange neatly on four oven proof plates. Mix the ingredients for the topping and spoon on top of the mushrooms. Put into 300 degree oven and warm through for about 3 to 5 minutes. Drizzle with olive oil and season with fresh ground pepper. Serve with crusty French bread.

Makes 4 servings